When couples start asking questions to each other then it’s an open and honest way that strengthens emotional bonds.
So if you want to deepen emotional intimacy and communication with your partner, here are the best questions for couples we’ve compiled for you that will strengthen your love intimacy for a lifetime.
From future goals to personal values or you need to create moments of intimacy, this list has a range of topics that will nurture a strong connection.
What are you waiting for then? Scroll down and start the game to spice up your connection. Enjoy.
Best Questions For Couples
1. What was your favorite date we’ve had?
2. Do you want kids? If so, what are some of the values you want to instill in them?
3. How do you express anger?
4. What luxury do you enjoy treating yourself to?
5. How do you like to spend a rainy afternoon?
6. When was the last time you cried?
7. When do you feel like you are really in your element?
8. What’s your most embarrassing story about being sick?
9. What is the extent of your religious ideology, if any?
10. What is something that scares you on a daily basis?
11. What are the things I can learn from you?
12. What are you battling that you don’t tell anyone about?
13. What have you struggled with your entire life?
14. Do you see yourself as someone who enjoys taking risks?
15. Who is the most irritating person you know?
16. What is your favorite karaoke song?
17. What criteria do you search for in finding new friends?
18. What is your favorite way to communicate?
19. What is your favorite TV show?
20. Do you consider yourself to be a forgiver?
21. Who is more generous, you or me?
22. What kind of gift do you want from me?
23. What small pleasures do you enjoy the most?
24. What friend have you not thought about in a long time?
25. What’s the craziest thing that has happened at a job you worked at?
26. Do you believe in ghosts?
27. What’s the most rewarding thing in your daily routine?
28. What memories do you want us to recreate together?
29. What kind of physical touch best expresses your feelings for me?
30. How do you feel about therapy?
31. How punctual of a person are you?
32. How many true best friends do you have?
33. Which song describes our love story best?
34. How much time do you spend online?
35. What three words best describe you?
36. What’s the worst emotional or mental anguish you’ve endured?
37. What is your favorite memory of our relationship?
38. What calms you down the most?
39. Who’s your “hall pass” celebrity crush today?
40. How do you hide anger when you don’t want it to show?
41. What are you most sentimental about?
42. What’s the biggest financial mistake you’ve made?
43. Do you have a bucket list?
44. Who do you want to be more like or who do you look up to most?
45. What is something we should enjoy more because it won’t be around for long?
46. What has been the weirdest food you’ve eaten?
47. How good are you at reading people?
48. What opportunities did you miss out on in life?
49. When you’re feeling sad or depressed, how can I be supportive?
50. What do you think will ruin this relationship?
51. What is the biggest accomplishment you have?
52. What’s something you’re looking forward to right now?
53. What were the healthiest and unhealthiest periods of your life?
54. When you’re feeling stressed, how can I be supportive?
55. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
56. Do you think you are a confident person? Why or why not?
57. Do you think the world is improving or getting worse? Why?
58. What was your relationship like with your parents?
59. What is the hardest life lesson you’ve had to learn?
60. What does a perfect date night look like to you?
61. Who is more trusting, you or me?
62. What are some of the things that you are most grateful for?
63. What’s something you think we do really well as a couple?
64. Which of us has a better sense of direction?
65. When you’re feeling anxious, how can I be supportive?
66. Were you “popular” in high school?
67. What’s one of my best qualities?
68. Would you rather text or talk on the phone?
69. What three adjectives best describe your personal style?
70. What’s your favorite meal now?
71. How do you actually feel whenever I hug you?
72. What is your favorite thing about me?
73. What is something that you are dreading?
74. What historical era would you most, and least, want to go to?
75. What does a perfect day look like to you?
76. What’s your dream vacation?
77. How likely are you to believe in conspiracy theories?
78. What’s your ideal way to spend a vacation?
79. How would you describe your relationship to gender?
80. Have you ever been in a physical fight?
81. What’s something you’d like for us to try?
82. If you had a bucket list, what would be on it?
83. What’s the most unethical thing you do regularly?
84. Where is a place you’ve always wanted to travel?
85. Do you want to know anything about my past relationship/s?
86. What if I made more money than you? How would you feel?
87. What is your favorite film?
88. Would you describe yourself as ambitious or as more easygoing?
89. What is your favorite book?
90. What is something you feel our relationship is lacking?
91. What’s the biggest betrayal you have ever experienced?
92. What’s your favorite way to unplug after a long day?
93. What was your favorite school subject growing up?
94. What makes you lose faith in humanity when you think about it?
95. Which would you like to know: when you’ll die or how you’ll die?
96. Even if it’s for me, can you name one thing you can’t give up?
97. What about yourself are you most proud of?
98. What makes you hate a person?
99. What happens on your ideal Friday night?
100. When are you the most “you”?
101. What’s something you screwed up and then tried to hide?
102. What movie would you recommend for us to watch when we’re relaxing?
103. Do you see yourself having kids? If so, how many?
104. Who do you act nice around but secretly dislike?
105. Have you ever been on a blind date?
106. When you’re having a bad day, what helps you turn it around?
107. What does a balanced relationship look like to you?
108. What’s a question you wish people would ask more often?
109. What book character do you think you’re most like?
110. What’s the worst date you’ve ever been on?
111. In what ways do you feel like you’ve grown from or during this relationship?
112. What’s the most awkward social situation you’ve been in?
113. What do you take for granted?
114. What are some words of wisdom that have stuck with you all these years?
115. What outfit of mine do you think best fits me?
116. Who was your first celebrity crush?
117. What weird thing stresses you out more than it should?
118. What is one opportunity where I could have supported you better?
119. Are you willing to take risks to fight for our relationship?
120. If you could gain one quality or ability, what would it be?
121. What would the best version of you be like?
122. What was your first sexual experience like?
123. What animal are you most afraid of?
124. How do you define infidelity?
125. Would you rather listen to a podcast or read a book?
126. What has been your biggest screw up so far?
127. What would you want your obituary to say?
128. What animal would you choose to be in another life?
129. What untrue thing did you believe for an incredibly long time?
130. What makes you dislike a person?
131. What’s the biggest risk you’ve taken?
132. How do you want to be remembered?
133. What is something you want to do together that we haven’t?
134. Who is more likely to survive the Hunger Games—me or you?
135. What do you look forward to most in the day?
136. What smartphone app do you mostly use?
137. Does your family have any traditions?
138. Have you ever been cheated on?
139. What’s something you wish you were better at?
140. What was the most painful thing to hear?
141. If so, do you ever dream about me?
142. What do you find sexiest about me?
143. What animal do you think I’d be?
144. What part of your life do love and affection play?
145. How about love at first sight?
146. What is your favorite thing about yourself?
147. How do you foresee us resolving our most persistent problems?
148. Do you think infidelity is always a deal breaker, no matter what?
149. What are kinds of things do you find repulsive?
150. Do you still believe in love at first sight?
151. What’s something you wish we did together more often?
152. What’s something about me that turns you on quickly?
153. What do you think your best and worst personality traits are?
154. Was there an embarrassing fashion moment in your adolescence?
155. What things do you look forward to each day?
156. Which of us is a better driver?
157. What question do you most want an answer to?
158. How do you think your best friend would describe you?
159. What are your goals for this relationship?
160. What are two of the most important events in your life?
161. What was the first album you ever owned?
162. What are some alcohol-induced stories of your younger days?
163. Do you remember your dreams when you wake up?
164. What is your favorite place?
165. Who is more of a risk-taker, you or me?
166. How would you describe your day?
167. What flavor of ice cream do you like: chocolate or vanilla?
168. Who was your first crush, and what were they like?
169. What has taken up too much of your life?
170. What would your perfect life look like?
171. How well do you think you would handle prison?
172. What’s the very first thing you noticed about me?
173. What do you most like to do when you have alone time?
174. Out of the four seasons, which one is your favorite?
175. What’s the strangest thing you have ever done in your life?
176. Do you feel any pressure right now?
177. What has been the most difficult thing you’ve had to learn?
178. Have you ever wanted to move anywhere else?
179. How important is having your own space to you?
180. Do you believe in reincarnation?
181. Do you believe that good parenting is important in today’s world?
182. Who is more likely to live through a zombie attack?
183. Can you change your whole self just for me?
184. What’s the perfect advice you could give me right now?
185. What were the three most important turning points in your life?
186. What’s your definition of romance?
187. Is it better to trust people or not trust people? And why?
188. What musical instrument do you wish you could play?
189. What is way more difficult than it sounds?
190. What has helped shape your current political stance and principles?
191. What life experiences did you miss out on?
192. What is your best (not worst) flaw?
193. How’s your weekend so far?
194. What activities would you like to do for our next date?
195. Have you ever dated someone who is older than you?
196. What do you consider a relationship deal-breaker?
197. What is one person’s habit that you find disgusting?
198. How do you feel about the way we communicate?
199. What is one thing you’ve appreciated in this past week?
200. What are three qualities you truly value in a romantic partner?
201. How did you fall out with some of your previously close friends?
202. In what ways do you think I’ve grown from or during this relationship?
203. What’s the scariest / creepiest place you have ever been?
204. What are some of the telltale signs of a shallow person?
205. Are you hopeful about your future?
206. For the past five years, what have you been most thankful for?
207. What’s a secret you’ve never told anyone?
208. What is the nicest compliment you’ve received?
209. What was the first thing that came to mind when you noticed me?
210. What do you like most about where we live?
211. What is your idea of a healthy relationship?
212. What’s the biggest opportunity you were given?
213. Where would be your ideal place—or places—to live?
214. What is your weakness?
215. Have you ever won an award for sports?
216. Are you someone who forgets people’s names easily?
217. How well do you function under a lot of pressure?
218. Do you believe in soulmates?
219. How many times have you been in love?
220. What makes you feel super fancy?
221. Would you rather be loved, respected, or admired?
222. Are you someone who loves or hates their birthday?
223. What is your favorite childhood memory?
224. Would you rather be a vampire or a werewolf?
225. How do you see the future individually and collectively as a couple?
226. What’s the craziest job you’d be willing to take?
227. If you could change one thing about me, what do you think would it be?
228. Is there a song that makes you think of me?
229. What do you want out of life?
230. Who do you miss the most?
231. What are some of the highest-valued things on your bucket list?
232. When was a time I made you feel especially appreciated?
233. What has been the most daring thing you’ve done so far?
234. When you look at a man or woman, what is the first thing that comes to mind?
235. What does a good date night idea include for you?
236. Can you describe what your first heartbreak was like?
237. What’s your favorite thing about our relationship?
238. What is the saddest thing about your life that nobody knows?
239. What are the three things we have in common?
240. What are some of your healthy and unhealthy habits?
241. What is your favorite memory of someone no longer in your life?
242. How does your life compare to how you imagined it growing up?
243. Would you rather lose a toe or have another date with your worst ex?
244. What’s the best way for someone to improve themselves?
245. What are your thoughts on transparency between couples?
246. Have you enjoyed meeting new friends as a child?
247. What age would you like to live to?
248. What’s the worst thing that people are proud of?
249. What’s a subject you feel you know enough about to write a book on?
250. What biases do you think you have?
251. What was your favorite class in school?
252. Do you see yourself as competitive?
253. When do you feel the most secure and taken care of?
254. Do you consider yourself flirtatious?
255. Have you ever cheated on someone?
256. What do you believe is the most important factor in making a relationship last?
257. What are you looking to get out of dating right now?
258. How well do you know yourself?
259. How do you feel about the way that we argue?
260. Who is your favorite couple in pop culture?
261. Have you had your heart broken before?
262. What are the few things you’re most grateful for?
263. What movie or TV character do you think you’re most like?
264. What job do you think you were born to do?
265. What would be the greatest gift to receive?
266. What’s a romantic vacation like for you?
267. What part of you as a person still needs a lot of work?
268. How do you talk yourself down from anger or frustration?
269. What was your dream job when you were a kid?
270. Where would you like to be touched more often?
271. Is there anything you would change about yourself?
272. What do you worry about?
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