130+ Best Questions to Ask a Guy or Girl Over Text

Looking for the best questions to ask a guy or girl over text?

Unlike face-to-face interactions, chatting over text is a great way to get to know someone better. It is a skill that empowers two people to connect authentically and share each other thoughts.

Below I’ve compiled the list of best questions to ask a guy or girl over text that will play a great role in knowing the person better and also whether or not you both are interested in each other. Scroll down and choose the best one.

Questions to Ask a Guy or Girl Over Text

1. What is your favorite childhood memory?

2. Where is your dream travel destination?

3. Cat person or dog person?

4. Would you rather check out a book from the library, or buy it from a bookstore?

5. Would you rather date someone who is exactly like you or the complete opposite?

6. What’s the funniest picture you have on your phone?

7. What is a fact that you’re shocked more people aren’t aware of?

8. What isn’t real but you desperately wish it was?

9. What does masculinity or being a man mean to you?

10. What food do you usually enjoy eating?

11. What is the most interesting thing you have on you or near you right now? Send me a pic of it.

12. Do you believe in the concept of soul mates?

13. Who do you consider to be the luckiest person in this world?

14. Do you believe in love at first sight?

15. Who was your celeb crush as a teenager?

16. Is there a food or trend that everyone seems to love but you can’t stand?

17. What is your favorite movie of all time?

18. What dumb pickup lines do you know?

19. What’s the most ridiculous joke you’ve ever heard?

20. What’s the worst thing you’ve ever heard a person say to another?

21. What’s your “go to” video or gif for a laugh?

22. Do you love reading books?

23. Who was your first crush, and did you tell them?

24. What app on your phone do you think I should get?

25. Have you ever done anything illegal?

26. Would you rather take a spontaneous vacation, or plan your itinerary in advance?

27. Have you ever been in love?

28. What’s your most vivid childhood memory, good or bad?

29. Who haven’t you seen or spoken with in a long time who you hope is doing well?

30. How do you deal with people who annoy you for no apparent reason?

31. What’s your relationship to your gender?

32. What do you hate / love most about your phone?

33. How many questions can you answer in just pictures?

34. What is the most important thing you’ve learned in life?

35. What is the scariest non banned item you could take on to a plane?

36. What is your favorite quality about yourself?

37. What has been your most memorable life experience to date?

38. What is your biggest pet peeve?

39. What song has the best intro?

40. What was the most meaningful gift you’ve ever gotten?

41. What is one movie that you’ll always enjoy, no matter how many times you’ve seen it?

42. What’s the last concert you went to?

43. What’s the best “hidden gem” that you’ve found?

44. What does self-care look like for you?

45. What’s the worst text you’ve ever sent by accident?

46. Would you rather drink water or coffee?

47. What kinds of stuff make you laugh the hardest?

48. If you could only listen to one album for the rest of your life, what would it be?

49. Would you rather receive chocolate or flowers?

50. Who’s your celeb crush?

51. Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon?

52. What’s the weirdest thing that happened to you this week?

53. What are your hidden talents?

54. When you’re in a bad mood, who or what can cheer you up?

55. What thing do you really wish you could buy right now?

56. What happens in real life that is rarely shown in films?

57. What gender stereotype do you wish the world would let go of?

58. What’s the most embarrassing thing in your search history?

59. What does friendship mean to you?

60. When was your last relationship?

61. When was the last time you accidentally hurt someone’s feelings?

62. What’s your favorite conspiracy theory?

63. Is lying ever OK?

64. What reality TV show would you be on?

65. Do you have any hidden talents?

66. What’s your favorite part of your typical day?

67. Would you survive being stranded on a deserted island?

68. What is the most amusing thing that anyone might spend money on or purchase on the internet?

69. What’s your favorite pickup line?

70. What is your favorite meme?

71. Do you want to be more or less like your parents?

72. What word would you use to describe yourself if you had to choose only one?

73. When was the last time you cried?

74. What’s the funniest thing that someone could spend money on / buy on the internet?

75. What do you want to be remembered for after you die?

76. Do you talk about your feelings often? Why or why not?

77. Is jealousy healthy in a relationship?

78. What do you want to do in retirement?

79. What’s the (funniest / most disappointing / weirdest / etc.) text you’ve gotten?

80. What is your go-to TV show to play in the background?

81. Which animal would you like if you could be one?

82. What is your ideal first date?

83. Who was the fictional character that scared you the most as a child?

84. What was your last big fight about?

85. Which three fictional characters combined best represent you?

86. If you could do anything in the world except your current job, what would you do?

87. Where’s your favorite place to get take away or delivery from?

88. Would you survive a zombie apocalypse?

89. Where is the coolest place you’ve traveled?

90. What is your all-time favorite movie quote?

91. What is your favorite book?

92. What’s your most annoying habit?

93. Where would you live if you could live anywhere in the world?

94. What is your favorite snack?

95. Where was your first-ever job?

96. What weird smell do you find particularly appealing?

97. Is cheating ever OK?

98. What’s your favorite quote from a movie?

99. What’s your “go to” joke?

100. What did you spend your allowance on growing up?

101. What qualities do you look for in a future partner?

102. What’s your favorite meme of all time?

103. What’s the best photo you’ve taken?

104. Which of the four seasons is your favorite?

105. What do you wish you had more of in your life right now?

106. What’s the worst text that you accidentally sent?

107. What are some of the questions you wish people would stop asking you?

108. What is your worst habit?

109. What’s more important: science or art?

110. Who would you want to play you in a movie?

111. Would you rather take a year off work to travel or learn something you’ve always wanted to?

112. What’s the silliest thing you are passionate about?

113. If you could be a superhero, who would you be?

114. Who was the worst visitor you’ve ever had, and what did they do?

115. Do you have any big regrets in life?

116. What parts of yourself are you working on right now?

117. Have you ever cheated on someone before? Why did you do it—and do you regret it?

118. What’s the best advice you’ve ever got?

119. What movie did you watch over and over when you were a kid?

120. Can you tell me one item on your Bucket List?

121. Who is your celebrity crush?

122. How do you usually spend your weekends?

123. Do you collect anything?

124. Are you a spiritual person?

125. Do you like pets?

126. What are some things you wish you had known when you were younger?

127. What’s one instrument you wish you learned how to play?

128. What is your pet peeve?

129. What’s a question you wish more people asked you?

130. What song do you play most often?

131. Would you rather spend an evening at a club or home watching a movie?

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